How to clean and maintain your sex toys? (complete guide)

1. Why properly cleaning your sex toys is essential for your intimate health

A sex toy comes into contact with your mucous membranes (vulva, vagina, anus, sometimes mouth), with:

• secretions (lubrication, semen);
• microorganisms (bacteria, fungi, viruses);
• residues of lubricant, flavored lubricant, oil…

If the toy isn't cleaned properly, these elements can remain on the surface or penetrate a porous material, then be reintroduced the next time it's used. Sexual health experts remind us that poorly cleaned sex toys can contribute to bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, urinary tract infections, irritation, and, if shared, the transmission of STIs . Planned Parenthood – Sex toys and safer sex
NHS – Sex toys and STIs
CDC – Safer sex basics

Fortunately, there's no need for harsh products: warm water + mild soap + proper technique are sufficient in most cases. If you've chosen a sex toy made of platinum silicone, steel, or glass , you're already starting with an advantage in terms of hygiene.

2. The 7 basic rules for safely cleaning your sex toys

Before going into detail by subject, a few simple rules almost always apply:

1. Read the instructions : it's basic, but each toy has its own specific features (water resistance, exact material, temperature limits). This is even more true for the premium models discussed in our article on high-end sex toys .
2. Unplug and switch off electric/rechargeable toys before washing them.
3. Use lukewarm water , not boiling, unless the instructions explicitly state that boiling is possible.
4. Choose a mild, unscented soap without harsh antibacterial agents (which can irritate the vulva or penis if residue remains). Mayo Clinic – Feminine hygiene products
5. Rinse thoroughly to remove all traces of soap.
6. Allow to dry completely before storing (to prevent the growth of bacteria in the humidity).
7. Store in a clean, dry place , preferably in a dedicated pouch or box, away from dust and direct light.

These simple steps already greatly reduce the risks of irritation and contamination, and prolong the life of your toys, especially those you can find in our sex toy collections .

3. How to clean your sex toys depending on their material

The best method depends a lot on the material . Not all materials can withstand the same heat, the same products, or the same degree of porosity. If you're still unsure which material to choose, you can supplement this guide with our comparison of silicone, platinum, steel, and glass .

3.1. High-quality silicone sex toys (often "medical grade silicone")

High-quality silicone (non-porous, smooth, and without a strong plastic odor) is now one of the most recommended materials in sexology and by reputable manufacturers. It is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. ASHA – Sex toys and sexual health. It is also the primary material used in many high-end sex toys .

Routine cleaning:

• warm water + mild soap, rubbing well into all areas and contours;
• rinse thoroughly;
• Air dry or dry with a clean, lint-free cloth.

Further disinfection (if the toy is 100% silicone and non-electric, without a motor or battery):

• Some can be boiled for 3 to 5 minutes (always check the instructions);
• or washed in the dishwasher (top rack, without harsh detergent) if the manufacturer confirms it.

3.2. Sex toys made of ABS / non-porous hard plastic

They are often found in the form of vibrating balls, shells or external shells.

Cleaning:

• lukewarm water + mild soap on the rigid part;
• avoid fully immersing the toy if it is not waterproof (check for the "waterproof" or "splashproof" label);
• Do not boil or put in the dishwasher.

3.3. Sex toys made of glass (borosilicate) or stainless steel

These materials, when designed for intimate use, are non-porous, very durable, and easy to disinfect. Oh Joy Sex Toy – How to clean your sex toys

Routine cleaning:

• lukewarm water + mild soap;
• Rinse thoroughly and dry.

Disinfection is possible (often):

• boil for a few minutes (if the manufacturer indicates it);
• Some are also dishwasher safe (without violent thermal shock).

Be careful of impacts (with glass) and avoid dropping them on hard surfaces. To choose between glass and steel when buying, you can refer to the guidelines in our article on materials .

3.4. Sex toys made of TPE, jelly, PVC, cyberskin or "realistic" materials

These materials are often more porous and difficult to disinfect completely. They can retain bacteria or odors over time, even with thorough cleaning. Many sources advise using them with a condom if they are shared or used in different areas. Planned Parenthood – Sex toys

Cleaning:

• lukewarm water + mild soap, without prolonged soaking;
• Rinse well, dry completely;
• Lightly powder certain "skin-like" masturbators with a powder recommended by the manufacturer (never regular talc).

Important: If the material changes smell or color, or becomes sticky or tacky to the touch, it's often advisable to replace the toy . This could be an opportunity to upgrade to a higher-quality model made of platinum silicone, glass, or steel, like those discussed in "First Premium Sex Toy: How to Choose the Right Model?"

3.5. Anal toys: heightened vigilance

Anal sex toys (plugs, beads, prostate stimulators, etc.) require special attention:

• always wash them thoroughly before and after use;
• Never switch from anal to vaginal use without a new condom or thorough cleaning (risk of transferring intestinal bacteria); NHS – Sex toys & STIs
• Opt for non-porous materials (quality silicone, steel, glass) for more effective cleaning.

If you want to integrate prostate plugs or toys into more scripted games, you can also take a look at our article "Soft-chic BDSM: elegant accessories for beginners" , which talks about gentle and reassuring dynamics.

4. Which products should be used (and which should be absolutely avoided)?

4.1. What works well

• Warm water + mild soap : the basics, sufficient in most cases.
• Sex toy cleaners : certain specific sprays or foams, without harsh alcohol, can be useful as a supplement, provided you rinse if necessary and check material compatibility. Healthline – How to clean sex toys
• Slightly disinfectant solution (chlorhexidine type solution or similar), only if recommended by the manufacturer and rinse well afterwards, as residues can irritate mucous membranes.

4.2. What is best to avoid

• Pure or concentrated bleach on sex toys, especially porous or electrical ones: too aggressive, potentially irritating, risks damaging the material.
• Perfumed wipes, makeup removers or perfumed “intimate” wipes : they leave residues of alcohol, perfume or preservatives that can irritate the vagina, vulva or anus.
• Pure alcohol (70/90° type): sometimes tolerated on non-porous surfaces, but can damage some silicones and leave irritating residues if not rinsed properly.
• Household disinfectants (multi-surface, kitchen, bathroom): not intended for contact with mucous membranes.

If you are putting together a couple's gift set or a sensual gift that includes a sex toy, you can also slip in a little care reminder, or even a suitable cleaner, as suggested in "Sensual gift ideas: 20 elegant and intimate suggestions" .

5. Sharing sex toys: how to limit the risks of STIs and infections

Sex toys can transmit STIs if:

• they are used successively on several people without cleaning or protection;
• they switch from anal to vaginal use without changing condoms;
• They contain traces of blood, semen, or secretions. NHS – Sex toys and STIs

To limit the risks:

• use a condom on the toy when using it together, and change it between each person or between anal and vaginal use;
• Prefer non-porous materials if the toys are shared;
• Clean systematically after each use, even if a condom has been used (to remove lubricants, micro-residues, etc.).

If you are looking for ideas for games or rituals for two around these toys, in addition to the safety aspect, you can get inspiration from our articles "Sensual gift ideas" and "How to develop elegant sensuality on a daily basis" .

6. Dry, store, protect: prolong the life of your sex toys

Good maintenance isn't just about washing, it's also about what you do afterwards .

6.1. Drying

• Allow to air dry on a clean towel;
• or wipe with a clean, lint-free cloth;
• Avoid storing a toy that is still wet in a closed pouch.

6.2. Storage

• use a fabric pouch or a dedicated box for each toy (or by type), in order to avoid dust and direct contact between different materials (some can react with each other);
• avoid very hot places, in direct sunlight or in a constantly humid bathroom;
• Do not leave it lying around in a drawer with objects that could damage the surface (jewelry, sharp metal, etc.).

Many premium models, like those described in "First premium sex toy: how to choose the right model?" , come with their own storage pouch: actually use it, it's not just an aesthetic bonus.

6.3. Knowing when to say goodbye

It might be time to replace a sex toy if:

• the substance becomes sticky, changes color or smell;
• cracks, fissures or porosity appear;
• the engine is overheating or the toy can no longer hold a load;
• You no longer feel confident about using it in your body.

7. Quick checklist after each use

To put it simply, you can keep this mini-ritual in mind:

• 1. Rinse with lukewarm water.
• 2. Wash with a mild soap (or suitable cleaner).
• 3. Rinse thoroughly.
• 4. Dry completely.
• 5. Store in a clean pouch or box.

This ritual rarely takes more than a few minutes, and it protects both your body and your investment . And if you want to upgrade the quality of your toys, the articles in the "premium sex toys" series ( why invest , how to choose ) can help you expand your collection.

Conclusion: taking care of your sex toys is taking care of yourself

Cleaning your sex toys is not a minor chore: it's an act of respect for your body, your intimate health and your pleasure .

By applying a few simple principles – warm water, mild soap, respect for the material, complete drying, clean storage – you reduce the risk of irritation and infection, you extend the life of your toys, and you can relax more when using them.

Your pleasure deserves clean, safe, and well-maintained tools. Your sex toys are part of your wellness routine: they deserve to be cared for with as much care as the rest of your body.

And if you want to explore new toys while keeping these good practices, you can browse our different collections of sex toys or get inspired by the ideas shared in "Sensual Gift Ideas" .

FAQ: Cleaning and maintaining your sex toys

Do I need to wash my sex toy even if I used it with a condom?

Yes. A condom protects against direct contact with the material, but there may be residues of lubricant, latex, secretions, or dust on the surface. A quick wash after each use is still recommended, especially if you plan to use your toy with another partner or on another area (vaginal/anal). Planned Parenthood – Sex Toys

Can I put all my sex toys in boiling water?

No, absolutely not. Only certain toys made of 100% silicone, glass, or steel, and without a motor or battery , can be boiled, if the manufacturer specifies it. Electric toys, those made of ABS, or those made of gel-like materials are likely to be damaged. Always check the instructions first.

Is a regular shower gel sufficient for cleaning a sex toy?

You can use a very mild, fragrance-free shower gel without irritants , but ideally, use a mild, neutral soap. Perfumed or antibacterial shower gels can leave harsh residues that irritate the mucous membranes, especially if rinsing isn't thorough. Mayo Clinic – Feminine Hygiene

How do you clean a sex toy that isn't waterproof?

Don't soak it in water. You can:

• turn off and unplug the toy;
• use a clean, damp cloth with a little mild soap on the part that touches the body;
• wipe with a damp cloth, then rinse with water only;
• Dry thoroughly, avoiding the charging port or battery area.

How long can a sex toy last?

A good quality sex toy (silicone, glass, steel, ABS) that is well cared for can last for several years. Toys made of porous or cheap materials may wear out faster. Lifespan also depends on use, storage, and manufacturing quality. If you want to maximize the lifespan of your investment, the advice in our article on high-end sex toys can help.

Can sex toys transmit STIs?

Yes, it's possible if the same toy is used by multiple people, or if it's moved from one area to another (anal to vaginal, for example) without cleaning or changing the condom. Using condoms, cleaning thoroughly, choosing non-porous materials, and avoiding sharing if you have any doubts greatly reduces this risk. NHS – Sex toys & STIs

Sources and resources for further exploration

To delve deeper into the issues of hygiene, materials, and safety surrounding sex toys:

• Organization and public health
  Planned Parenthood – Sex toys
  NHS – Sex toys and STIs
  CDC – Safer Sex
• Intimate hygiene, soap & irritations
  Mayo Clinic – Feminine hygiene products
  Healthline – How to clean sex toys
• Materials & best practices
  ASHA – Sex toys and sexual health
  Oh Joy Sex Toy – How to clean your sex toys
  MyHixel – The boom of devices for sexuality

These resources all converge on one simple idea: a clean, well-maintained sex toy means a more serene, safer, and more comfortable sex life for your body. And if you want to supplement this guide, you can explore other articles on our blog, such as our material comparison or "Vibrator, wand, stimulator: which one to choose?" .